The mirror of life is what you transfer emotionally
The mirror of life is what you transfer emotionally
For too many of us in life we believe that our life is our lot and we have mediocre times with scattered times of happiness, joy and abundance. You look around all the time and see so many people who seem to be so much better off than you and we wonder why not me.
They might have more money, better relationships, a bigger house, perfect job or career and so many other things. Although we will not often admit it to others we sit and ponder how and what are they doing differently from us. What do we need to do differently to have what they want?
There are so many self development and spiritual books available discussing and explaining what it is we need to do to change our lives. They offer very complex and engaging techniques and exercises for us to do. For most of the people who engage in these techniques or exercises always find it challenging to be consistent and as such seem to get mixed results and become despondent. The missing ingredient or understanding if you would like to call it that comes down to 3 little words. Having been in sales and self development for all of my life, I have always wondered what makes some people successful and soar to heights we all dream of and why some people just cannot even get out of the hanger on to the runway. Within the sales environment I would often see sales staff go from having to exceptional months of sales to writing 0 deals and then again 2 months later back on the bus and setting records. It always amazed me what was going on that would cause this and was it an external factor or an internal one. What truly confused me even more was how a sales exec that was on an all time low would go and present to a client without getting a deal but another sales exec that was on a high would walk in 2 days later and sign the same client for double the money initially quoted. This made me realise that it had nothing to do with the outer world or events of life but what was going on in each and every person within themselves at that point of their lives. It was at 5am one morning while I was sitting in the steam room at gym pondering the question of what is it that makes sales staff exceptional and more importantly what did this mean in the grander scheme of life. What was it that made some people successful and abundant in all areas of life and others fear and failure conscious. I was tired of hearing all the whacky solutions to problems like scream at yourself in the mirror before leaving the house each day, wear your watch on a different arm, take a different route to the office and so many more. All of these were not addressing the cause of the issue which is what was going on inside a person’s head and heart emotionally. It was in this moment that I realised that all of life and everything in it was happening from the inside out. What our dominant thoughts and more importantly emotional states are is what were going to experience in our outer world or reality. Life is about 3 little words ‘TRANSFER OF EMOTIONS’. Now let me explain what I mean about this. Transfer of emotion is simply; what emotions and thoughts are you transferring out into the world around you daily. If I am excited, confident, passionate and friendly naturally the world is going to respond to me the same way. When I am unsure, afraid, nervous and aggressive the world and all the people in it respond to you accordingly. We can look at our lives to see how the emotions we continuously transfer out into the world come back through experiences and people with pin point accuracy. Examine any are in your life right now, you might be feeling rather challenged or negative and hopeless about. Now think carefully about the emotion that you are continuously transferring into that area of your life and what you are experiencing via circumstances, events and people. I will guarantee you that when you look closely at specific areas of your reality or experiences; it is simply a mirror back to you on what your dominant feelings or emotional state it.
The world outside has no impact on you whatsoever, the entire world by which we all live on this planet is governed by the world from within and the emotions we transfer into every area of our lives, every day, consistently. The reason why so many people live a mixed bag of results is because they are generally transferring different emotions into different areas of their lives. They feel joyous, enthusiastic and passionate around their families but unconfident, fearful and anxious when thinking about money or the job they don’t like. The key is to be consistent in every area of your life in the emotions and thoughts you are infusing in that moment. Whatever emotion you are transferring consciously or unconsciously is going to be mirrored back to you by every event and circumstance in your life. This is guaranteed. In order for us to shift our creation ability into overdrive we all need to live and feel as much Love, joy, happiness and abundance in every moment of our lives. When we choose in every moment of every day to respond to people and circumstance and to no longer just react, we see miracles appear almost instantaneously. The key to changing anything in one’s life is to make sure that we exercise our God given right of free will, we choose how we feel in every moment and never surrender our personal power by reactive in any moment. When the balance of your life becomes more slanted to good feelings and good emotions like Love, abundance, gratitude and joy, you have mastered the art of deliberate creation.
Look at your life and see what emotions and thoughts you transfer into various areas or subjects in your life and decide whether or not your experiences and people are mirroring back to the same about your life. TRANSFER AS MUCH LOVE, COMPASSION, KINDNESS AND ABUNDANCE INTO EVERYTHING AND EVERYTHING WILL TRANSFER BACK THE SAME TO YOU.
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